Pramod Gela! Kai Jhala!!

Chhatrapati Shivaji had said, "Gad aala, paan Simha gela" (We have won the fort but have lost the Lion - Tanaji). On the sad day of May 3, we had only the words: “Nako Hath Aala, Paan Simha Gela"

Tears welled up in the eyes of party leaders, workers and even media persons as floral tributes were paid to the photo of late Pramod Mahjan.


Poem

'How come that blood on your own sleeve!Little brother, pray come tell me.''It is the blood, the same flowing in you
Tell me, why flowed there, can’t believe!

Little Pravin, brother of a swayamsevak,
I am also a swayamsevak, listen,
I ate library in my student life,
Still my memory is unable to find!

An evil like you, like you Pravin
No one believed that you did such
Fired to own brother who did much
For you, for you only Pravin, Remind!

And your father went heaven, listen,
Listen me Pravin, you were only 9,
What has this world come to!
Oh! Due to hate, world come to!


Murder by the ones they loved!

''When Pravin tried to fire the fourth bullet, the pistol jammed. Then Rekha and the servants pushed Pravin out of the house,'' said Arup Patnaik, Joint Commissioner of Police.

I find two other sad incidents whose lives have been ended in the hands of evil, the ones they loved?

On Sunday, April 25, 1999, Roger Troutman was found shot and critically wounded outside a recording studio in Dayton, Ohio; he died during surgery at a local hospital. Roger's brother Larry was found dead in a car a few blocks away with a single gunshot wound to the head. It is likely that a personal dispute had developed between the two brothers; as far as can be determined, Larry shot Roger, then shot himself

Susan Cabot (born Jul 9, 1927; died December 10, 1986) was an American actress.Cabot's son, who suffered from dwarfism and psychological problems, bludgeoned her to death in her home in Encino, California. He was subsequently charged with involuntary manslaughter.
The news of the horrific death sent shockwaves through the whole nation across party line.


The “mad man”?

http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=66947
Rekha’s family were ignored, yet loved Mahajan. But Pravin’s 1,000-sq ft apartment in Thane had been bought with Mahajan’s assistance, apart from other business ventures he’d helped with.

I'm angry and confused and very sad. What was going on inside Pravin’s heart? What was he thinking? How deep could her confusion haven been?
Late Pramodji a wonderful, loving leader has had his earthly life ended in such horrific circumstances. Young leader was gunned down in madness. I'm shocked beyond words.

In Hinduja hospital Pramod Mahajan was giving last fight to the death. But inside court Pravin Mahajan told the court that his car which he had brought from his house at Thane might be released as his family has no car to commute.

“I have not read the newspaper since April 23. I want to know at least as to what people are saying about the case,” Pravin told the court when he was remanded to police custody till May 3.

According to a report by J C Marfatia, consultant psychiatrist, J J Group of hospitals there are nine symptoms associated with the disorder in which the accused lose control over him and commits murder.
The “mad man” according to his advocate N. Rajurkar, “I don’t want to make any comments. The mad man is inside (Pravin in lock-up) and the good man is in the hospital. But their families are out in the world. I don’t want to say something that might cause a rift in the family,”


People who are menace to the society

My blog titled ‘Without Car but named in Maruti Scandal’ published in the indiatimes. One viewer on his comment in his false name repeated my full article but between it he mentioned the reason of murder demanding back his deposited money from Pravin. He did this sin to show that that allegation was mine. I deleted that comment. There are so many devils in the earth.

These are the people who are but menace to the society and this menace should be curtailed from being spread further like cancerous growth, while there would be no hope, as things go out of control. This is in the interest of the citizens at large.


What a brave man he was!

Mahajan said he should be taken to the Hinduja Hospital, which was the nearest to his home. He told his wife “I don’t have much time, call Gopinath ‘Gopya’. It is the nickname he used for Munde when they were in school.
His final instruction was that there should be no complaint to the police against “Chandu”. Chandu is Pravin, Mahajan’s younger brother, who is now under arrest for the attack.

Pramod was conscious enough to still give instructions. On his way to hospital, he asked Munde, “Mee kai gunah kela hota, kai ashe pap kele hote ki mala Pravin ney asey kele?”


Otherwise the man would be PM

On astrological front, Mahajan was never predicted to be shot by anyone this year at least. But at his time of refusal of security, he told the police officer that my own might killed me.If K.Gopalakrishnan was to be believed, 57-year-old Mahajan should have don the mantle of president or prime minister post in 2009. Gopalakrishnan is regarded as one of South India's leading astrologers, and his prediction on Mahajan appeared on a website (http://sify.com/lifestyle/astrology/fullstory).
Another astrologist, Dr. Prem Kumar Sharma, had predicted nearer to the above. http://www.karmicastro.com/pramod_mahajan1.htm.
Former PM Atal Behari Vajpayee's also endorsed Mahajan as a future leader of the country.

But accidentally prediction and Atal-Aspiration could not be turn in the reality.

Born on October 30 1949, Mahajan came from a simple background, bringing up his siblings. He joined the RSS in his 20s and worked in rural Maharashtra. In 1979 he was assigned by the RSS to work in the political arm of the Sangh Parivar, later the BJP. In 1986 Mahajan became president of the All India Bharatiya Janata Yuva Morcha, worked in Maharashtra politics for a while and then came centre stage at the national level.

But it was a trajectory that his siblings could not match.


SIBLINGS: LESSON FOR PARENTS

* Accept your child's feelings. Allow them to grieve in their own way and encourage the expression of feelings
* Work on your own grief. Express sadness anger and frustration. Parents and children may be drawn together by sharing each other's grief.
* Spend time regularly with each child. This will offer assurance that they are loved.
Show them that they are as important as the lost sibling.
* Find healthy ways to remember your loved one. There are ways to cherish their memory. Some suggestions would be writing down memories in a journal, organizing photos in a special album, or framing special artwork or writings
* Each child needs individual acceptance. Try and nurture their own identity
* Get help. Getting outside help may make it easier for them to communicate

KEEP IN MIND


By Premendra Agrawal
Premendra_in@indiatimes.com
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